The Dichotomy of Control
Sort each thing into what depends on you and what does not.
It directs effort toward the will and away from what cannot be controlled.
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Epictetus teaches that freedom comes from distinguishing what is in our power from what is not, and from the disciplined right use of our impressions.
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Sort each thing into what depends on you and what does not.
It directs effort toward the will and away from what cannot be controlled.
Tell an impression to wait while you examine what it really is.
It interrupts reaction and restores judgment before assent.
Every faculty is strengthened by the actions that correspond to it.
It makes daily practice the means of changing character.
Summary
The Discourses are a record of Epictetus teaching, set down by his pupil Arrian. They return again and again to one distinction: some things are in our power and some are not. Our judgments, desires, and will are ours; the body, possessions, and reputation are not.
From this distinction Epictetus draws his account of disturbance. We are pained not by things themselves but by our opinions about them. The rational faculty alone can examine appearances and decide what to accept, and its proper work is to assent only to what is true and to use impressions rightly.
Freedom, in these talks, is interior. A tyrant may fetter the leg, exile the body, or take property, but he cannot overpower the will. Epictetus insists that the person who has placed the self in the will, and not in externals, cannot be hindered or compelled.
The teaching is practical and demanding. Progress is not measured by how many books one has read but by training in desire and aversion, in pursuit and avoidance, and in assent. As any habit grows by repeated action, the mind must be exercised against the impressions that would sweep it away.
The tone is serious and sometimes severe. Epictetus offers no comfort in externals and little patience for self-deception. What he promises is the tranquillity that follows when a person stops demanding that the world be otherwise and attends instead to the one domain that is truly their own.
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Selected Quotes
You may fetter my leg, but my will not even Zeus himself can overpower.
Every habit and faculty is maintained and increased by the corresponding actions: the habit of walking by walking, the habit of running by running.
This is the true athlete, the man who exercises himself against such appearances.
Source
Source text: Project Gutenberg edition of A Selection from the Discourses of Epictetus by Epictetus.
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Compiled by Arrian c. 108 CE from Epictetus's teachings; the Project Gutenberg edition uses George Long's translation of a selection from the Discourses.